Good morning Mark.
Morning all. We are headed over to brother in law's house to help them deal with the loss of their mother/wife. Married for 40 years but diesn't know if she would want cremation or burial, how to pay a bill, how to turn on a computer or turn on an oven. I guess this is a lesson for us all...
I pay 90% of the bills
I am always on the computer
I do most all of the Cooking
What LESSON do I need !!!
That sounds perfect to me. Our money is separate also. What we did initially was divide the bills pretty much close to half with him probably paying a little more... and he bought the groceries and paid for restaurants. But I wasn't getting SS widow benefits at the time and now I am so I'm buying a fair amount of groceries and other household stuff.Me and my G/F, Wife, Significant other, whoever she identifies with, have always kept our money separately. All the bills go to her, but she adds up the amount, divides them in half, and I Zelle her that abount. She pays for the day to day groceries, and I pay for all the Costco and Sam's Club bills. If we need something at Home Depot, I show her the receipt and she will Zelle me half of these bills. She buys the gas for her car, and I buy the gas for my car. She has her own car insurance with me added as an alternate driver, and I pay for my car insurance with her as an alternate driver. I never feel cheated, nor does she. In fact, when we go out to dinner, she pays one dinner, and I pay the next dinner. Sometimes the bill can run $250 for a meal, other "In N Out" burger meals run us $20. it all evens out pretty fairly.